charper

You get in as someone's guest.

charper is a living map of your city's queer life: friends, dates, hookups and plans for tonight. Built New members join through someone's invite link, and Built the AI personas on the map always wear their label.

Built works today, in the members' prototype map (with made-up people) or its invite links. Designed is how charper works, on the way.

The prototype map at night with a made-up person's card open: a name, an age, a one-line bio and the buttons Message, Wave, Invite and Block.
Built The prototype map at night: over the Willamette, into a crowd, and one person's card. Made-up people, real streets.
The charper prototype map of downtown Portland from above the east bank of the Willamette: the Morrison, Burnside and Steel bridges, the downtown towers, and dozens of little crowds labelled with how many people are there and how many are yours.
Built Downtown Portland across the Willamette, rendered by the prototype map with its buttons hidden. Camera posed for this page; everyone on it is made up. Map data © OpenStreetMap contributors.

One map. Every kind of night.

Most apps make you pick a lane, then a different app for the other lanes. On charper, what you're after is a layer on the same live map, for every queer gender from day one.

  • FriendsDesigned

    Climbing partners, a sober coffee, someone else who just moved here. Profiles lead with what you share, not your stats.

  • DatesDesigned

    Slow or soon. Couples show up linked to each other, so everyone knows who they're talking to.

  • HookupsDesigned

    Discreet, direct, on your terms. Filters work both ways: if you filter someone out, you vanish for them too.

  • Open nowBuilt

    In the prototype map, "Open to meeting now" is a switch, not a fourth kind: it lights up whichever kinds you picked.

The charper prototype map at 9:30 at night: the Willamette, the Morrison and Hawthorne bridges, lit windows on both banks, and little crowds of made-up people.
Built Your city, street by street: the Willamette at 9:30 pm on the prototype map, with made-up people. Map data © OpenStreetMap contributors.

More than a map. Plans, rooms and your people.

Designed is how charper works, on the way. Exploring is an idea we're working out, not a promise.

  • Designed

    Events, hosted

    One-off or every week. Hosts approve RSVPs, keep a door list and add co-hosts. Hosting is charper's only paid tier.

  • Designed

    Community listings, free

    Recovery meetings, testing and PrEP clinics, peer support, mutual aid, know-your-rights nights. Free to list, reviewed by a person, never boosted.

  • Designed

    Sober and clear-headed

    Any event can carry the sober tag, and it filters like everything else.

  • Designed

    Beacons

    "Seeing the 7pm movie, 3 spots." Up to eight people, gone within a day, free for everyone.

  • Designed

    Group chats that tidy up

    Every event and beacon gets a chat; event chats close 48 hours after the night ends. Private groups are invite-only. Group chats are visible to charper so they can be moderated.

  • Designed

    Video rooms

    Rooms for events and groups. They open only once moderation can keep up and a host pilots one, and they're visible to charper, not end-to-end encrypted.

  • Designed

    Friends endorse you

    Friends write you a public endorsement; you choose which ones show. Never a count, never a score.

  • Exploring

    Your best photos, picked

    Tools that suggest which of your photos and clips show you best. You always choose; nothing is posted for you.

Why charper, at a glance.

The complaints people make about dating and cruising apps are remarkably consistent: bots and scams, safety behind a paywall, dead feeds, and location leaks. charper is designed against each one, and each line says whether it's built yet.

TopicMost appscharper
Who's on itAnyone who can make an account.Built You get in by a member's invite link; each member has five. Designed A fake account costs someone a real invite.
When someone's awfulBanned accounts can sign up again.Designed If someone you vouched for is banned, your invites are paused, so people vouch with care.
Signing upMany want your phone number.Built Sign in with Google today; charper never asks for a phone number. Designed Passkeys and email, printable backup codes, any name you like.
Where you areIn 2024, researchers pinned users of six apps to about 2 metres from distance alone. Those apps have since fixed it.1Built On the prototype map, faces show only where three or more people share a spot. Designed Your location blurred to a few blocks on your phone, and no travel mode.
Your messagesVaries by app.Designed Person-to-person messages aren't open yet. When they are: end-to-end encrypted, and a report shares that message and the four before it, only when you send it.
Safety toolsSome are paid extras. Grindr's Incognito is part of its paid tier.2Designed Blocking, filters, reporting and incognito, free forever. Hosts are the only paid tier.
Your attentionStreaks, "who viewed you", nudges to come back.Designed None of it. charper works when you put the phone down and go out.

What each one is for

  • SniffiesA live map, for gay, bi and curious men.3
  • Bumble BFFFriends, in its own separate app.4
  • charperDesignedFriends, dates, hookups and plans, on one live map, for every queer gender.

Safety is the product, not the fine print.

Each card says where it stands. Built works today, in the members' prototype map (with made-up people) or its invite links. Designed is how charper works, on the way.

Built

Faces need a crowd.

In the prototype map, with made-up people: a spot shows faces only when at least three people share it. Fewer than three reads "a few around": no faces, no names, no count.

The prototype map over North Tabor by day: a quiet block labelled only 'a few around', with no faces and no count.
Designed

Nobody sees where you actually are.

Your location is rounded on your phone, then blurred to a cell a few blocks wide, differently for each person looking, so nobody can compare notes to find you. No travel mode: you appear where you are, blurred, or not at all.

Invite-only, and quiet about it.

Built New members join through someone's invite link. Designed Who vouched someone in shows only to the person who did and to their friends, so strangers can't map who invited whom. AI personas say "AI persona · made by charper" instead. Block is a step away on every card and in every chat.

A card on the prototype map by day: a made-up person, Kit X., 22, 'Slow mornings, good coffee.', near The Green Door, vouched in by Hux, with the buttons Message, Wave, Invite and Block.

No ID. No phone number.

Built Today you sign in with Google, and charper never asks for a phone number. Designed Then: passkey and email sign-in, printable backup codes, any name you like. A face scan on your phone checks your age and keeps only a yes. Photos verified is a separate, optional scan: if you turn it on, charper keeps a face template (numbers, not a picture) until you remove the badge. Nothing is computed for anyone else's face in your photos.

AI personas say so.

Built Every AI persona on the map wears a robot badge and the words "AI persona". Designed Chat with them is switched off for now; when it opens, they never claim to be human and stop when you say no.

Designed

After you meet, a quiet word.

"Matched their photos?" "Felt safe?" Optional, private, and seen only by safety. Never shown on anyone's profile.

Designed

"I'm worried about them."

A separate way to look out for someone. They get an anonymous card of support resources, never a "you were reported".

Designed

No surprise nudes.

Explicit images from people you haven't matched with arrive blurred. Tap to see, or don't.

Designed

Leave in a hurry. Stay discreet.

One gesture swaps to a neutral page. Install it under a name and icon you choose. Notifications say "1 new" and nothing more.

Designed

Safety is never for sale.

Seeing people, messaging, filters, blocking, reporting and incognito are free forever. The one paywall is for people who host events.

Designed

Your messages are yours. Not ours.

Person-to-person messages aren't open yet. This is how they'll work.

  • End-to-end encrypted, one to one. Our servers hold scrambled text they can't read.
  • Report only what you choose. That message and the four before it, sent with your consent, and sealed so nothing can be cherry-picked.
  • Plain about the rest. Group and event chats, and chats with AI personas, are visible to charper so they can be moderated, and the app says so.
The prototype map at night over SE Belmont: a crowd of made-up people, some with faces and some without, and its label: 7.
Built A crowd of seven on the prototype map at night. Made-up people; map data © OpenStreetMap contributors.

How you get in.

  1. BuiltSomeone on charper sends you an invite link. Every member has five. There's no public sign-up and no waitlist: that's the point.
  2. DesignedA quick age check. No ID needed. We keep a yes or a no.
  3. DesignedPick any name you like. Pronouns, purposes, photos if you want them. Your real name stays yours.

Designed If someone you vouch for is banned, your invites are paused. That's why people vouch with care, and why it stays good.

Designed

No streaks. No "who viewed you." charper wins when you leave the house.

Want in? Ask someone on charper.

charper is opening one city at a time, through people who already know it. If nobody you know is on it yet, it hasn't reached you. It will, through a friend.

Already a member? Open the map

CHAR-per verb · Polari to seek.

Where the name comes from

Polari was the cant queer people in Britain used to talk safely in public. Charper was its word for seeking. So: bona to vada your dolly eek. Nice to see your pretty face.